Through the Lens: The Unseen Colour Bias in Indian Weddings

As a photographer, I’ve witnessed countless magical moments—tears, laughter, and the pure joy of two souls uniting. But I’ve also seen something darker lurking in the shadows: the harsh reality of colour discrimination. It’s a bitter truth that even on the most sacred day of their lives, brides and grooms, especially those with darker skin tones, face unsolicited comments and cruel jokes.

It’s baffling how often I hear relatives whisper, “Why did the fairer one choose someone so dark?” or “He could’ve done better.” These remarks, often disguised as harmless banter, cut deep. Worse, I’ve been told, “Edit the photos well; make her look brighter,” or “Increase the stage lighting; she’s too dark.” The crowd laughs, but I cringe. Why must someone’s skin tone overshadow their happiness?

Love, as I’ve seen through my lens, isn’t about skin tone. It’s about connection, respect, and the heart. Yet, society clings to outdated notions of fairness as a benchmark for beauty. Why should a fair-skinned person marrying someone darker be seen as a compromise? Isn’t love about who makes your heart race, not who fits a colour chart?

To every bride and groom I’ve worked with, my team and I promise this: we see you for who you are, not the shade of your skin. Our job isn’t to “fix” your appearance but to capture your essence, your joy, and your love. You are gorgeous just the way you are, and we’ll make sure your photos reflect that.

Let’s stop reducing people to their skin tone. Let’s celebrate love in all its hues. After all, isn’t that what weddings are about?